Category: Change – Growth
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The Confidence Trap (Why I Stopped Trying to Build Self-Confidence)
I have spent a great deal of my life trying to be more confident. I bought plenty of self-help books, attended many a seminar and even worked with coaches of all types to change beliefs, build my confidence, boost my self-esteem, improve my self-image, etc. I used to be so insecure inside that I would…
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Living From Your Greatness
I have been a hardcore self-growth junkie for the last eight years straight. I’ve seen it all. One thing I’ve noticed is that I have often found it is easy to want to focus on bettering my weaknesses (aka beat the hell out of myself), break through fears (after which nothing is there to inspire…
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When Big Changes Hit You on the Head
Life transition can often come because of a big life event. But it also can hit us more slowly, a deeper feeling that we need to move in a new direction. Or perhaps we’re just getting tired of our current job or place in life. Transition came in a big way for me when my…
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Take The Pressure Off Yourself
The ominous pressure. To do more. To have more. More, more, more. I am very, very susceptible to putting pressure on myself to get things done. As I come upon 38 years of age, I feel it now more than ever. And what about you, can you relate to the stress-pressure feeling? For me, it…
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My Complete Guide To The Best Of Self-Improvement
“These are a Few of My Favorite Things!” – Rogers and Hammerstein OK, so I lied. There are much more than just a few things here. There are many, many resources here my friends; 25+ things that are the best of the best in my book. I’ve put this together for all of you…